Why do we feel bored?
If I will ask this to another person, he will answer, ???Of course. Because there is nothing to do.???
And I???ll shout right in front of his face, ???You???ve got nothing to do!? Why nothing? You can breathe, drink, eat, study, clean, jump from a building or kill yourself. But nothing to do? How????
Weird, but true. I said only a few of the things which would give us something to do.
There are a lot of things to do in this lifetime. Why nothing to do? Why bored?
This question lingered inside my head for a pretty long time. I'd always feel dry and bored. Like there is nothing productive to do but sit idle and wait for the sky to fall. In my head, I was thinking, ???What the hell am I going to do? Everywhere I look I see nothing I can do.???
But while my head was shouting its complaints, my school works and a pile of chores are waiting in my room.
I wondered. ???Why am I feeling bored when I have a lot of things waiting for me to finish them????
My answer came to me.
I was sitting in front of the computer. My answer. The reason is my computer.
Weird right?
But that is really the reason why I am feeling bored. Because I was playing the computer. But whenever I got tired of playing computer, I will not stand from the computer seat. I will wait and wait until something good happens. Bottomline, I just sit for hours. Result? A wrong utilization of my time.
Now do you see the problem of boredom?
I used the computer as my example because the computer is my vice. Whenever there are no classes, Computer is my only retreat from the everyday school life. A therapy to soothe the stress.
But that is my problem. There are a lot of things to be done, but I would still stay on my seat. And I would feel bored, when at that time I should not be for I have a heavy load of things to finish.
This is our problem.
In truth, we do not feel bored. We should not. But we make boredom an excuse from our stressful lives. There are a lot of things to do. In the back of our complaining minds, there are a lot of things to do, but we only think of it as a burden to our lives. So we get stuck with the things that we want to do. Because there is something we do not want to do.
In the movie ???Knowing??? a character said, ???People see what they want to see.???
In the boredom situa
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