ATM Club Contest List
1 year, 3 months & 19 days ago
5th Oct 2018 10:11
To make life easier on everyone I figure someone should have a place where all contests can be found. So this blog is it! Make sure you check it here and there as new contests will crop up. If you are hosting a club contest of any kind please let me know so I can post the link to the blog here!
The contests will be listed with the ones ending soonest first, and will be updated as contests end.
ATM 2.0 Holiday Party Dress Up Game
Dress your doll in Elegant Elf Dress or Pinetree Dress and join the party!
End Date: December 27 (for entry)
December 30 (for voting)
ATM 2.0 Clubbie Appreciation Nominations
Do you appreciate a clubbie? Nominate them to win a prize now!
End Date: December 30
Dating again.... lol
4 days, 3 hrs & 17 mins ago
19th Jan 2020 16:30
So when my marriage ended I fell in love with the first guy I met and now that that relationship ended (9 months later actually we got engaged 9 months ago today) I'm dating again. Ok so far... well there's been some interesting experiences lol. Mostly everyone seems to expect a single woman to want or be good for just one thing. I'm not like that. So I've had dates with 2 guys so far, and both were pretty good
The first well... ok I'm conflicted on if I want to date this guy again honestly. He has stage 4 emphysema like my mom does, and I know what will happen and how it will kill him. I saw it with my grandma and my mom, his lungs are down to 23%, and well... I just don't know if I want to build a relationship with someone who will die a very long lingering horrible death and I will have to watch it. It kills me to watch it with my mom, I do not want to fall in love and watch the same thing with my lover. The second guy I would date again in a heartbeat I think. So far the finding people to date has been interesting, but the dates themselves have been good.
Ended my engagement again...
6 days, 18 hrs & 13 mins ago
17th Jan 2020 01:34
This time it feels permanent. He came home from visiting his sister and says he's done. She told him to break up with me and he decided that's best. He moved out, but his stuff is still here for now. While that's not what I want, and not fine with me, that's ok. I decided that I'll smile, wish him a good life, and move on. Then his sister starts attacking me on social media, calling me names and just well being her. How much pain does anyone really expect me to take? I lost everything, the man I was going to marry, the life I wanted, having someone who I loved and who loved me... that's ok. Life goes on and I'll come out stronger and better than before.
Edit: Jan 19, 2019
Have my nephew tonight, we had some fun
He made me laugh, but he almost made me cry. I was talking to his dad about Tim and how I just don't understand what went wrong and why no one ever seems to want to love me. His dad said "Tim seemed to love you so much, he's stupid for listening to his family." And I was crying, well let's face it when I'm alone I cry too much... so anyways Larissa gave me a hug and I felt worse for crying in front of the kids. Larissa and Jordan went home and Aiden told me out of the blue "Don't worry Danielle. I love you. I will live with you so you're not lonely. I won't be your husband, but I'll be your stepson!" I told him thank you but Daddy would miss him too much, and he said "Well I know someone will love you as much as I do, but no one will ever love you more than I do." This from a little boy who almost never hugs, almost never says "I love you."
New year, new me!
10 days, 18 hrs & 16 mins ago
13th Jan 2020 01:31
I've been so wrapped up in all that I've lost and all that's change in the last year or so that I've been making myself totally miserable. Of course that has an impact on my relationship with my fiance Tim, on my friendships, and on pretty much every aspect of my life. I do try to be sunny and happy, but when I let the negative overwhelm me it's easier to be sad and depressed (to say the least lol). So I decided to try to change how I look at things. When I get a negative thought I say to myself "Ok, that happened. It sucked, life goes on. Now, what are 3 positive things that came from that happening?" I'll be 100% honest, finding the positive things isn't always easy, and sometimes the positive things are pretty small, but I'm finding that focusing on the positive that came from the negative, instead of on the negative itself, is making it easier for me to kind of get rid of that negative thought or to look at it in a new light. It may sound corny, it may sound stupid, but so far it's working for me. It's funny but sometime now I get so wrapped up in finding the positive that came from it that I almost (or do) forget what the negative thought was! Hopefully I can make this a permanent habit, and hopefully it continues to make me a more positive person!!